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Facing the fact that the guy you really, really like, or even love, in you only sees the potential study buddy or just a person he can talk to when in need of a companion is not that pleasant. That is why we cannot stop but ask ourselves: Is it possible to escape the friend zone?
According to my news feed, it seems to me that they suffer immensely, and that almost every other boy actually is a victim of heartless girls who are only kind enough to them to offer their friendship and want to have nothing more with them. A couple of years ago there seemed to have been an entire avalanche of posts dedicated to girls who friendzoned tons of nice boys who wished to date them and they have only dated douche bags since.
However, apart from the question of why girls don't want to date nice guys but they dotrust Im tired of being friendzonedwe decided to raise another big question and several others closely related :. And what about the girls being friendzoned? Why are they rarely mentioned? And is there any crucial difference between situations when girls are friendzoned, and when the same happens to boys? But for the rest for you, there is something you might want to know. Read carefully. If the years and years of listening to young women in my surrounding complaining about relationships or lack of them have brought anything to my attention, it was this: whenever a friend zone was involved in a problem it was after a certain time having been spent as friends; and it has all started with an intention of being only friends.
It seems that we simply let our feelings evolve after some time. In most cases, precisely that seems to be the difference. Girls don't simply go for friendship if they want something more. If they want something more, they go for something more. The real problem starts when life tricks us into going for friendship before we realize there is more to it that we want to accomplish. And sometimes, it seems that is too late to make things work. No matter how hard they tried to become anything he has ever wanted a woman to be, bringing up the topic of a romantic relationship would make the entire effort appear worthless.
So, that can't not make us wonder: is it possible to escape the friend zone, like: ever? There is no sure receipt or a magic spell that could assure you that he will fall for you. Nevertheless, there is some hope.
By nature, men are hunters. What I am about to say to you sounded as cliche to me the first time I heard it as it is going to sound to you. In order to get them to become interested they need to be made feel Im tired of being friendzoned challenged. Without challenge, they will hardly ever try and act. So try not to wear your heart on your sleeve, because most likely it won't be of any help. For the same strange reason mentioned above, boys are not really excited by the fact that they can have you any time they want.
It's simply as if it doesn't make blood rush through their veins. Something else has to be done. Now when there are supermarkets and fast food chains on every corner, there is no need for men to really go hunting. Some of them go for the sake of fun, but the others simply find it pointless the opinion I actually understand. However, that is the case because there are remnants of their minds that Im tired of being friendzoned failed to evolve, and now, instead of boars or deer, they have the need to hunt our hearts.
That somehow brings us to conclusion that when they do say that we are the best friends ever, and that they really like us, they actually and unfortunately, perhaps do mean that. But because we are always there for them and they know that they can rely on us isn't that what friendship is all about? Are you tilting your head by now? Yes, to a reasonable person, this sounds whacky at first, but then you think about it more and it makes more sense. When us girls friendzone guys, why is that for? Yes, precisely that that came to your mind. And that, too.
You see? There is no much difference. However, us friendzoning them is not what bothers us at the moment. If they want a challenge, give them a challenge. Let that be our rule No. But remember: do not be obvious. That is the crucial thing No. Let him know that you can have other guys if you want to. That, if you want to, you can be interested in other guys, as well; and that you are willing to date other guys if they try hard enough and fight for your attention.
Firstly, at the point when you are proving that, your ificant friend doesn't even have to be completely aware that you are into him the way you are but he could be. What is important here is to somehow bring your love life to his conscious. Make him think about it for a while. Then he'll think about it a bit longer, and there you go: a progress.
No, we can't say we did it, but we made an important step on the way Im tired of being friendzoned it. Making him see that he can lose you, or have to share your attention with another male specimen can spark up a bit of jealousy in his mind. Boys don't always like to share, especially if on some level they actually like us, but are not aware of it. And that is a fact us girls love. The other thing that we should be aware of is that if it is the case, they won't be willing to say it out loud, but they will surely make some sort of a comment at some point. Another plus side is that, if you start spending more time with someone else, and less with him, he will have more time to think about what his time with you means to him.
Who knows what can happen in his pretty head when you are away Something us young ladies and women in the friend zone realized, or re-realized, is that not only doing favors, but also asking for them can make your relationship with your friend more profound and closer to the actual dating. And why is that for, you ask? Well, ladies wanting to escape the friend zone, believe it or not: it is for more or less the same reason they have the need to hunt their love pray. They like to feel needed from time to time to fix our stuff or help brush up on our finals knowledge.
Don't mix it up: they don't want to feel abused, but they like from time to time to feel that we rely on their skillful hands and clever minds. And to be honest, it's handy to have a helping hand around the house from time to time: that makes it a win-win situation. After a series of hopeless attempts to get his attention, girls desperate to escape the friend zone do their best constantly happy and content that they are willing to do everything he wants, hoping that eventually he will realize how much he depends on her and finally promise her the everlasting love she was searching for all along.
What happens to them is when they realize what they have done, it is probably too late. By that time there is not much they could do to make things better. He is already used to having her do whatever he likes, and he feels self-confident enough to not want to change much.
Let's make it clear: it's one thing being always there for him as a friend; and it is completely different being there to fulfill his every whim and wish. Former makes you a good friend, and latter makes you a doormat. Make sure you know the difference before you get yourself hurt. Contrary to the popular belief of the women who perpetually fail to have a successful relationship; the truth is that not all men are the same. Just like not all women are so. What is a good approach for one guy can be a lame approach for the other one.
Some guys won't ever let a girl become a doormat in their surrounding, because they are just a gentleman enough, others will simply enjoy having putting women in the friend zone there is actually a psychological explanation for that, but let's leave that for some other occasionsome of them will be flattered to know that someone is in the friend zone because of them, others would be repelled. It's nothing strange: it's like when you like your eggs poached, but your sister likes them sunny side up. No big deal, but that's just the way it is.
It's the same with guys' preferences. It's the same even with us. But it's up to us to realize that differences are there, analyze them, and realize whether or not with should cope with them and how. If you have a whole afternoon for yourselves in his house, don't spend it on a couch shouting to one another to bring the popcorns. Use the joys of the privacy you have at hand. If you're watching a movie, lean your head on his shoulder or rest your legs on his lap.
If you're cooking together, occasionally brush against him while you're trying to reach a spoon. Ask him to give you a massage because you're feeling your shoulders are a bit too tense from the workout. A tickle can turn into a hug, a hug into snuggling, and snuggling can increase your dopamine and pheromone levels leading him thinking more about you before you know it. So just start slow.Im tired of being friendzoned
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